How do I say this? Life is busy. I have battened down all the hatches. There is no chances of this ship sinking. Deadlines are being reached, sort of. I have clients now! Which is something I would never have thought would happen if you asked me three years ago. These are all obviously good things because, you know, #makingit. But I can’t wait for a break (I’ve got a month left before I get one). Being stuck at this desk job probably isn’t helping. I’m also working on weekends. To deal with it all, I’ve definitely been picking three. Which means that some things have gotten voted off the island. But call me a masochist, I don’t necessarily mind it. Though I won’t say no to a Sunday morning off, either.
I’m not complaining, but the last few weeks have really made me realize the importance of flexibility. How privileged I was to work as a freelancer for a whole three years that let me learn, practice and prepare for the gig I really wanted. And likewise, the privilege of falling back on a really well paying job when I realized my bank account needed a boost. I’m also starting to think about what I need to do to make it all happen, like boundaries, rules, and the power to say ‘no.’ While also being a good friend and partner all at the same time. And how does being a woman fit into all of this? These are the things when you’ve got a side hustle going. And they’ve all been swirling around in my head lately. Then International Women’s Day happened. And naturally, I wanted to share some of the things that have kept me chugging along over the past few weeks and helping to get all those things done and living a well designed life. Oh right, and these all come from ladies.
Community is a wonderful thing. I have the community in front of me. The incredibly inspiring and wonderful women who exist in the real space and sweat, and the friendships who might be over a significantly large body of water. These women all keep me afloat. And then there’s all the women who are letting their voices out on the web. Kate Arends is one of these women and I’ve been really getting into all of her monthly themed and incredibly honest essays. This month, it’s Women Who #Werk, and it couldn’t come at a better time. And it’s all so real. Definitely pay attention to her space if you’re needing some reads on it all.
I’m being a heck ton better about everything I put into my body. This past month, my pod-crush Jessica Murnane released One Part Plant. Her podcasts have helped get me through things before, but now she has a cookbook that can help my insides work better. Lena Dunham even wrote the foreword. After the holidays, my body had taken a literal beating. I wasn’t feeling great. Bloated was just the start of things. Even though I was working out nearly every day of the week, I knew I needed to make changes beyond a single month of clean eating. And I’m glad I made some new rules for myself: more home cooked meals. More plants. More good things. And since then, I’ve never felt better.
Werk landed into my Inbox the other day. Right after a conversation with a bunch of multi-hyphenate ladies as we were discussing all the things they do to make things happen. And what gets left behind. Ever wanted to know where the flexible jobs were? You know, the ones with the opportunity to work remotely? On your own time? So you could also do all the other things that were important to you? They’re at Werk waiting for you.